Why Does Her Pain Feel Like an Attack?
"Your partner isn't after you going to 50 meetings a week and sponsoring 60 guys. She's after emotional connection."What happens when a man in recovery cannot tolerate his partner's pain? Dr. Michael ...
8 Sep 27min
You Can't Talk Him Into Getting Help
"You can't make another person choose recovery, no matter how hard you try."This one is for the partner who has run out of road. You have cried, pleaded, threatened, reasoned and hoped. He either admi...
1 Sep 6min
Why Understanding Yourself Never Fixed It
"Understanding why you're stuck isn't the same as getting unstuck."Most men who arrive at the intensive have already done a great deal of work. They have been in therapy, read the books, listened to t...
25 Aug 8min
How Do You Know If You Have a Sex Addiction?
"Most people know they have a problem long before they're willing to admit it. They know it when they hide. They know it when they lie. They know it when they promise themselves and others that they'l...
25 Aug 9min
What Trauma Really Is (And Why So Many People Miss It)
"That didn't happen to me. I had a pretty good childhood. I don't think I have any trauma." And that's often where the misunderstanding begins.What is trauma, and how does anyone know whether they hav...
11 Aug 10min
Episode 25 - Am I Addicted to Sex? (The Truth About Relief vs. Pleasure)
"You tell yourself you're going to stop. You set rules, you promise your partner, you install filters... and yet, you find yourself going back. If you feel like you've lost the power of choice, this e...
4 Aug 10min
Episode 24 - Why Relationships Stay Stuck After Betrayal Even When Both People Want Healing
If both partners are genuinely committed to healing after betrayal, why does the relationship still feel stuck? Many couples find themselves trapped in painful, repetitive cycles even when acting-out ...
28 Jul 10min
Episode 23 - Why Regulation Is Essential for Relationship Healing
In this powerful episode of Reconnection Moments, Dr. Michael Barta reveals a groundbreaking truth: true relationship healing after betrayal isn't about willpower or managing behavior. It's about mast...
21 Jul 7min
