What's Really Cockblocking Your Wildest Fantasies (And How To Stop That Now) | E23

What’s the thing that scares the shit out of most couples? Being seen for who they really are. And in sex? Sharing their fantasies.

What’s the one thing that sits underneath every fantasy, every risk, and every deeply connected relationship? It’s TRUST.

Most of us simply don't trust what will happen when we share ourselves completely.

So, today’s episode is all about helping you doing exactly that. We cover:

• the difference between fantasy and action
• the reasons why "convincing" your partner never works
• why a hard "no" today doesn't mean no forever
• how to talk about what turns you on without pressing your partner
• how the nervous system needs to hear something a few times before it stops treating it like a threat

The best relationships are not built on playing safe. They’re built on the kind of trust that lets two people tell the truth, stay close, explore, and grow together.

If you've been sitting on a sexy fantasy for a while but haven't found the way in yet, this episode is the conversation you need to hear – make it a date night to listen to it with your partner!

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TIME STAMPS

02:00 Free Fantasy Live Workshop Invitation

02:23 You Don't Know What You Don't Know

06:29 Challenging Times In A Relationship Don't Have To Be The End Of It

07:46 Trust Is What Changes Everything

10:01 What Are You Scared Of?

11:40 What Are They Going To Think?

13:08 How Chiara Felt Safe To Talk About Her Threesome Fantasy

14:42 The Secret Fantasies Workshop You Don't Want To Miss

15:19 How Do You Create Safety?

16:50 Is This A Relationship Worth Saving?

17:54 How To Know If You Should Turn Your Fantasy Into Reality

18:59 "I want to convince my partner to..."

22:09 Your Answer: Nervous System + Play

24:59 How To Find Your Voice

26:01 What Sops You From Sharing Fantasies

28:15 The Leap Of Faith To Trust

30:04 Ask Yourself This Question

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More content about Sexual Fantasies:

>> E6 | There’s No Shame In “Dirty” Fantasies: How Speaking Them Out Loud Transforms Taboos into Passion – Listen on Apple or Spotify

>> E19 | Threesome fantasy? How to talk to your partner about it (and make it happen) – Listen on Apple or Spotify

>> E22 | How to share secret sexual desires and why we're turned on by taboos – Listen on Apple or Spotify

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