Taking the pain out of loss

Taking the pain out of loss

The sadness we feel when we go through loss or separation is not coming from the loss itself, it’s coming from the irrational mind of attachment. Buddha gives scientific teachings on how our pain is created by this and other negative states of mind. Based on Understanding The Mind by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso, Gen Gomlam explains that by understanding the distinction between love and attachment and realising how Buddhist wisdom overcomes this irrational and painful mind, we can heal our emotional pain.

Further reading in the following book: How to Understand the Mind

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Why We Should Let Go of Anger

Why We Should Let Go of Anger

Gen Demo explores why letting go of anger is essential for a happy life, showing how anger can become a deeply ingrained habit and how it affects the people around us. Through relatable examples, she ...

7 Sep 18min

Your Mind Is Projecting Everything

Your Mind Is Projecting Everything

Gen Thekchen introduces emptiness with disarming humor — looking at his audience and showing how the same people can appear as kind or horrible depending entirely on the mind’s projection. He reveals ...

31 Aug 14min

What Are You Focusing on?

What Are You Focusing on?

Gen Lamchen explains why thinking harder about a problem so often makes it worse. She shows how attention and mindfulness — the very mental habits that trap us in worry — can be turned around, then of...

25 Aug 16min

What Authentic Self-Confidence Really Means

What Authentic Self-Confidence Really Means

Adam Starr explores why our confidence crumbles when life hits hard, using the vivid metaphor of living in a bamboo hut on a beach. Drawing from the Buddhist master Shantideva, he reveals the differen...

17 Aug 17min

Making Hardship Your Spiritual Teacher

Making Hardship Your Spiritual Teacher

Gen-la Jampa teaches how to transform unavoidable suffering into spiritual growth. He shares the story of the Indian master Atisha who regarded his rude cook as his most precious companion because he ...

20 Jul 20min

How to Change Your Experiences

How to Change Your Experiences

Kadam Bridget explores how meditation and mindfulness can help us change the direction of our life by changing what karma is ripening for us. She explains why our negative thoughts are not our true na...

13 Jul 14min

The Joy of Overcoming Distraction

The Joy of Overcoming Distraction

Kadam Morten explains how observing the mind itself helps us overcome our greatest obstacle: distraction. He reveals how an untrained mind habitually focuses on things that causes us to suffer and sho...

6 Jul 13min

Delusions Are Our Only Enemy

Delusions Are Our Only Enemy

Gen Devi explains that our real problem is never other people or outer conditions, but the distorted states of mind called delusions. She reveals the vast, pure potential hidden beneath them — like a ...

29 Jun 14min

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