290. You Don't Need Certainty to Make a Good Dating Decision (Dating Dilemmas)

How much information do you actually need before you make a decision in your dating life? In this episode, I’m answering four real dating dilemmas that all come down to that one question.

We’re talking about dating two people and not knowing who to choose, deciding whether a sexual-health disclosure is a deal breaker, trying to figure out whether a struggling relationship is still worth fighting for, and realizing in hindsight that someone wasn’t quite who you thought they were.

The common thread? You’re rarely going to get 100% certainty in early dating. Instead, you have to learn how to gather information, stay connected to your values, and make decisions based on what you actually know, not what you wish you knew.

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In this episode:

How to choose between two people without turning dating into a competition
What to do when someone discloses an STI and you’re unsure how you feel about it
How to tell when someone is overwhelmed by life versus no longer prioritizing the relationship
What to make of someone who seems great at first but gradually reveals a very different side of themselves
Why you should evaluate people against your own needs, not against each other
How to make good dating decisions without waiting for perfect certainty

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