Come Together
Does group sex hit different in your thirties? This week, we reflect on our evolving relationships to threesomes, foursomes, orgies, etc. Party Trick | Popular Fantasy | The Invite (2026) | Why Is ...
25 Aug 48min
Eroticizing Exhaustion
How do you maintain a vibrant sex life when tired and in pain all the time? This week Billy interviews Kate about her chronic illness, and the ways she’s used kink to manage it and feel better about i...
18 Aug 58min
Pro Boner
Why are we so drawn to sexuality as a discussion topic and field of study, and how are people in our industry treated differently than those with more “vanilla” jobs? This week, we examine the interse...
11 Aug 45min
Thrilled by the Skilled
What is “competence kink,” and why is someone being good at things such a common turn-on? This week, we discuss our favorite competencies in others and in ourselves, and what makes them so hot. Is ...
4 Aug 45min
Honey Shot
Is real-life romance anything like a Hollywood romantic comedy? This week we’re discussing portrayals of love and relationships in fiction, and what makes a love story feel real and grounded, versus h...
28 Jul 53min
Far-Flung Friends
How do you maintain a friendship with someone who lives far away? We’ve done it for over a decade now, so this week we’re sharing our best advice on long-distance friendships! Romantic vs. Platonic ...
21 Jul 51min
Honey, I'm Home
“Meeting the parents” can be stressful for everyone involved, so this week we’re giving our best advice on it, including from a queer and polyamorous perspective! Introducing the BF/Metamour | Grokk...
14 Jul 52min
Secret Sauce
We’re answering more questions about lube this week, including which ones are best for travel, which drugstore lubes are actually decent, whether you should bring your own lube to a sex party, and mor...
7 Jul 39min
