Day 410 || red + yellow flags

Day 410 || red + yellow flags


TW: ABUSE


https://stopthehurt.org/is-your-relationship-headed-for-trouble-recognizing-red-and-yellow-flags/

Yellow Flags in a Relationship

Early signs of abuse may be based on attempts to control the other person. Some “Yellow Flags” that a relationship is turning abusive include:

  • Always checking in on you (by text, calling, or asking your friends/family/workplace where you are)
  • Not supporting or encouraging you
  • Putting you down (in private or in front of others)
  • Pressuring you to do things that make you uncomfortable.
  • Becoming angry too quickly or unreasonably.
  • Love Bombing – overwhelming you with affection and talk of the future very early in the relationship

Red Flags in a Relationship

Abuse may escalate to a “Red Flag,” which is any behavior that attempts to gain power and control in a relationship. Common red flags include:

  • Intimidation (through looks or actions)
  • Threatening to harm you or loved ones (including pets)
  • Damaging/destroying your belongings, or home
  • Accusing you of being unfaithful without any proof
  • Using their financial power as a justification for their actions
  • Showing extreme jealousy of your friends/family

Even one or two of these behaviors in a relationship is a red flag that abuse may be present.

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