My #teakink Tokyo Event, Shibari Living Rooms and Other Finds

When Eva Oh inched her way onto social media, she didn’t quite imagine the titles that would soon be getting used on her. Not the titles that she was used to, of Dominatrix or Mistress, but Educator, Mentor and Influencer. In this episode of the #teakink Podast Eva walks us through her mild disgust with some of the terms, the gossip that she catches wind of about them, and a few theories as to why things are the way that they are. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Educator? Mentor? Influencer? (01:56) - Playing the Influencer Game, A Mild Disgust? (03:20) - My Mentoring Calls (06:00) - Not As Intimidating as I Look? (09:00) - Great Feedback from Isabella Sinclaire (10:30) - When Gatekeeping is Better or Worse? (11:15) - Desperation for Power Amongst Those Stripped of It (12:15) - Educational Courses? (14:40) - How I Became How I Am

16 Apr 202416min

When people ask Eva Oh how her dates or partners “handle” her job and industry, it’s a frustrating time. Although she has come to understand the societal shortcomings that inspire this question, she has also learned of the incredible skills that sex work can offer the individuals who choose to work in it - and so perhaps the more important question is, ‘Would a Sex Worker Date You?’. Listen to this eye opening episode of the #teakink Podcast to find out. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Would a Sex Worker Date You? (01:00) - Unfortunate Case Studies (05:11) - Sex Work and Elevated Communication Skills (06:30) - Do You Deserve the Empathy? (08:55) - How Sex Work Has Changed Me (14:49) - Understanding Society’s Shortcomings (16:25) - A Better Case Study (18:00) - “I Never Thought I Could Have a Relationship Like This” (19:50) - How and Why Monogamy Was Constructed? (22:14) - Why I’ve Become So Picky, What I Deserve

9 Apr 202424min

What is a sex party? How do you find one? Do you have to have sex there? Eva Oh dishes out her international sex party experience in a #teakink episode with a lot of valuable information gathered through deep, hard and extensively serious research. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - The Ultimate Sex Party Episode(01:09) - What is a Sex Party?(03:00) - How Do You Find Out What Kind You’ll Liked?(03:55) - My First “Sex” Party, Hellfire(05:24) - I Discover Swingers Clubs(06:30) - Consent(07:30) - Safeguards(09:15) - My Sex Party Evolution(11:20) - Sex Clubs, Membership Spaces and Saunas(12:15) - Sex Club Nights and Meet-ups(14:00) - BDSM Clubs(15:20) - Travel Weekenders and Conventions(18:10) - The Orgy Dome at Burning Man(18:30) - From Berlin to Bali, Sex Parties Worldwide(20:40) - All Women Play Parties(22:00) - I Probably Need a Second Episode on This, At Least!

2 Apr 202422min

Eva Oh dedicates a #teakink episode to her experience working as an Escort, Brothel and Massage Worker. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - What is an Escort? (00:50) - How I Became an Escort (03:50) - My First Escort Photoshoot, in the middle of nowhere (07:00) - A Bad Feeling (08:00) - A Better Feeling (09:15) - Job Satisfaction (10:15) - These Ease of My First Booking (11:00) - Escort Agency and Dungeon Loyalty (12:20) - What the Job of Escorting Is - to me (13:20) - Girl Friend Experience VS Porn Star Experience (15:20) - Brothels (18:50) - Massage Parlours (20:20) - How I Structured My Work Life (21:00) - My Physical Gratification (21:50) - Missing the Workplace

26 Mar 202423min

A Dominatrix from London walks into the dungeon that Eva Oh is training at, and she chooses Eva to assist on an enlightening session. Eva sees things that take her years to understand. Quite the raucous episode of the #teakink Podcast. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Glorifying a Dominatrix from London (02:45) - She Chooses Me (05:10) - Entering Her Session, Two Slaves - Engorged… (08:40) - Is He Okay? (10:50) - It Took Me A Few Years to Get It! (12:40) - Still Learning, The Value of My Presence (15:10) - She Leaves. Everyone Complains in the Workplace. (17:30) - Time for a Raucous Session?

19 Mar 202418min

Listen in on an intimate conversation between Eva Oh and her dear and accomplished friend Laura Desiree that spans erotic callings, orgasms, banned erotica, stigma, drive and their favourite philosophy podcasts. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - My Darling Laura Desiree (00:40) - Disrupting Laura’s Structure (02:04) - What Laura is Up To (02:50) - Laura’s Event, ‘Eros Unbound’ (05:40) - Our Orgasms (07:00) - Voice, Sound and the Erotic (08:15) - Laura’s Erotic Calling (10:00) - Porn vs the Personal (12:15) - More On Our Orgasms, ‘Under the Skin’ and Astral Projection (13:55) - Laura’s Banned Erotica (15:00) - The Shared Stigma, Sex Workers and Sex Educators (18:25) - What Motivates Laura’s Drive (21:00) - Sex Workers Becoming Activists and Educators (23:50) - Eva Oh vs an FBI Agent (24:40) - The Meaning of Podcasting and a Platform? (29:00) - Our Favourite Philosophy Podcasts (29:40) - Limitations Birthing Creativity and Laura’s Tragedy

12 Mar 202432min

The Berlin Travel Guide that Eva Oh didn’t give you in Season 2 when she got sidetracked with a salacious story. But here it is! Club culture, sex clubs, sexuality learning spaces, kink festivals, bondage furniture makers, kink gear and fashion stores. Dig into Eva’s favourite places in Berlin, Germany - all from the comfort of her hotel bed after a successful weekend in Berlin herself. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Good Morning-ish from Berlin (00:59) - Why Do I Come to Berlin (04:00) - Club Culture, We Must of Course Talk about Berghain (09:00) - My First Berlin Sex Clubs and Playing with a Stranger (14:00) - Kit Kat Club, My Many Experiences There (19:55) - The German Fetish Ball (23:20) - Sexuality Learning Spaces, Karada House (24:30) - EURIX Rope Week (27:00) - Bondage Furniture Makers (28:40) - Kink Gear and Fashion Stores (31:00) - Playing with the Door Person at a Swingers Club

5 Mar 202434min

Nobody told Eva Oh that there would be an influx of younger folk interested in dating women much older than them. Eva is called “mature” by a date for the first time and “Mommy” by multiple admirers and it stirs thoughts on how she could best approach this surprise. A #teakink episode that makes obvious the difference between the conversations we have around older men dating younger women versus the far more swept under the rug world of the older dating woman. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - Being Called “Mature” on Dating Apps(00:55) - What Do I Do?!(01:12) - What I’m Looking For(02:25) - Nobody Told Me That There’d Be All This Interest(03:00) - “Cougars” and Their Fans(04:45) - Cindy Gallop’s TED Talk(06:25) - My Largest Age Gap(07:00) - Do I Entertain It?(07:30) - A Slave’s Age and Privilege Gap(08.55) - My First Age Gap Date(11:25) - How Desirability Evolves and What Sex Work Taught Me About It(12:45) - The More Commonly Talked About “Silver Fox”(14:10) - How I Might Embrace Being Called “Mommy”(16:30) - Age and Height on Dating Apps(18:00) - What is Appropriate? Give Me Dating Advice.(20:14) - Becoming Mommy Part 2?

27 Feb 202421min