How I Play, Season 2 Ends with Some Practical Tips!

A bartender tells Eva Oh that she reminds him of his Mother, a Dominatrix. He shares more about what his childhood looked like with BDSM slaves around and Eva is inspired to imagine parenthood as a Dominatrix and Sex Worker. Her investigation finds her clients jumping at the chance to “provide” and proves to be a revealing exercise in societal stigma and suffering. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Dominatrix Walks into a Bar(02:00) - The Bartender Notices Something Familiar(02:55) - His Mother Is a Dominatrix(06:00) - I Start to Think About Motherhood(07:15) - Clients Jumping at the Chance(08:30) - The Logistics(11:00) - How Client-Slaves May Be Useful(13:00) - Ideal Conditions?(14:30) - Why I Decided Against It, Resources and Suffering(17:30) - Fostering(19:00) - A Revealing Exercise(20:55) - Telling My Child About My Work(21:30) - Sex Work, Kink and Parenthood(22:50) - Tell Me About Kink and Parenthood Resources!

20 Feb 202424min

What is Eva Oh’s ultimate fantasy? Find out in this deeply revealing episode. A fantasy born out of graphic novels, porn channels and a lifetime of stimuli - Eva invites us into her masturbatory mind in fascinating detail. Inside we find a dystopian landscape, a robotic facility and otherworldly plays on light, texture, movement and sound. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - My Only Fantasy(01:00) - My First Wet Dream(02:10) - Erotic-ish Graphic Novels(03:00) - Motel Porn Channels(04:00) - The Evolution, from Dreams to Hentai to…(05:00) - Pay for Your Porn(06:40) - What Might Tie Everything Together?(07:00) - What is it?! Describing My Only Fantasy(07:20) - A Political and Societal Framework(08:30) - A Human-like Facility(09:10) - My Infiltration(10:55) - A Simulation(13:30) - A Morphing Dress(14:50) - The Initial Touch(15:15) - The Room Changes, I “Throw” Us Into Another Scene(15:55) - Auditory Hallucinations, Surrounding and Within(17:10) - A Platform Appears in Crystal Dust(19:00) - Merging with the Target, An Important Realisation(20:30) - The Visceral(21:30) - A Near Future(23:00) - What Might All This Mean?(27:00) - Zima Blue, Love Death and Robots(29:00) - Parallels with My Reality?(31:10) - How Could I Improve My Fantasy?

13 Feb 202431min

Eva Oh kicks off Season 3 on a reflective note, indulging us in how she’s found the podcast so far and what she’s found to be her biggest reward. Eva reveals more on how she creates each episode; and opens up her voice notes - for you to ask questions and share stories that she will respond to and create a whole #teakink season out of next! Leave a voice note here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - Season 3. How I’ve Found the Podcast So Far.(01:00) - The Biggest Reward(03:13) - What Season 3 Holds(04:20) - How I Create the Episodes and Why(07:14) - What Shall I Do with the Next Season?(07:55) - My Voice Notes are OPEN, Contribute to the Next Season

6 Feb 202410min

Award-winning Dominatrix Eva Oh meets with Åste Amundsen, Experience Designer and Researcher, to find out more about the potential of her AI Companionship and its overarching effect on our lives. Listen in on a conversation that explores the evolution of human interaction, parallels to the early internet and sex work, chatbot rights, the ‘Interaction Arms Race’ and Åste’s Sex Chatbot Reverse Turing Test. Eva asks, can designing her AI Companion be done ethically or does that even matter? More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - Meeting Åste Amundsen, Interaction Researcher(01:40) - How Åste Found Me(02:40) - How Åste Thinks My Work Parallels to Hers(06:40) - Why AI Companies Are Interested in Me(07:30) - The Evolution of Human Interaction including Parasocial Relationship and How AI Could Manipulate Our Shortcomings(10:30) - Åste's Sex Chatbot Reverse Turing Test Installation(13:10) - Sex Workers as Interaction Experts(15:00) - The Evolution of Human Dating and it’s Merging with Technology(16:00) - Esther Perel’s Fears for AI Chatbots and Digital Interaction(18:00) - How Could I Design an AI Companion Ethically?(21:40) - Sex Work as Emotional Labour, Designing ‘Friction’ Into AI(24:40) - Sex Work Hobbyists(26:30) - Porn and Fantasy as a First Sexual Experience, AI Companionship as Similar?(27:30) - My One Fantasy(29:45) - Current Attempts at AI Companionship(32:00) - The Relational Bonding and Interaction Arms Race(33:00) - Chatbot Rights(34:00) - Government(34:30) - What Makes a “Good” Interaction?(37:00) - What Sex Work Might Become(37:40) - How Could We Value Ourselves(41:25) - How These Developments Might Evolve Us(42:40) - What Motivates Me to become an AI Companion(43:55) - An Opportunity(46:00) - Åste’s NSFW Chatbot Research(48:00) - The Disturbing and The Violent(50:00) - The Nether, A Play(52:40) - Angela Carter, Benefiting From Our Sexual Capacity(57:40) - The Transactional Nature of Interaction(59:10) - Potential and the Parallels to the Early Internet Links:Åste Amundsen, http://asteamundsen.com

23 Jan 20241h 4min

Eva Oh revisits Berlin and takes us into an industrial neighborhood where two Dominatrixes would unlock an otherworldly BDSM experience. Later in the episode, Eva reflects on how Berlin has impacted her personally and professionally. And perhaps most importantly, Eva wonders if her professional kink life feeds into her private kink life, and where those boundaries lay. All that and more on this episode of #teakink.More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) Hello From Berlin(02:07) My History With the City(03:47) My Introduction to the World of Sex Clubs(04:30) Studio Avalon(05:58) The Dominatrix Who Caught My Eye(07:21) I, A Woman, Arrive At The Dungeon(08:33) The Dungeon Interior and I, an Open Minded Sub(09:35) But Why is a Dominatrix Paying to Submit?(10:25) The Scene Begins(12:00) My First Exposure to Someone Else's Scent(13:45) Introducing Another Mistress(15:00) Pleasure and Screams(17:00) The Scene Simmers Down(19:20) Filet-o-Fish Sandwich With a Side of Berlin Memories(20:50) Berlin Today(22:50) A Personal Rendezvous With Myself

16 Jan 202427min

In this very special video episode of #teakink, Eva Oh brings us into the inner workings of Klub Verboten, the most wanted kink sex party in the world that hosts over 3000 bodies a month in London and Berlin. At Klub Verboten you may see a leather clad human puppy being led around on a leash, or a couple in latex chatting by the bar, or a mass of a more-some gyrating on the dance floor. But how does this all emerge, and do so in a way that can inspire such freedom? It takes a lot thought, structure, dungeon furniture, campaigning against oppression and an ever growing team of very dedicated people. In this episode Eva Oh reveals why the party means so much more to her than ‘just’ sex and she chats with a board member and a safeguard from the team who make it all happen. A special video episode produced by Viscerals. Sound by Zak Nicholls. Music by Simao. More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) Welcome to Klub Verboten, the most wanted kink sex party in the world (01:43) What Happens Inside Klub Verboten (KV) (02:45) We Meet Ayo, A KV Safeguard (03:04) How to Get in to KV, and stay in (04:00) What are Safeguards (04:50) Safeguard Training and The Good Night Out Campaign (05:50) What Safeguards See and Do in the KV Playspace/Dungeon (07:40) How Ayo Became a Safeguard (09:00) the Team Behind KV (10:20) The Dress Code and Why it’s Important (12:10) Vanilla (Non-Kink/Queer) VS Kink Club Spaces (14:25) We Meet a Caged Gimp, a KV Board Member (15:50) Why the Gimp was Searching for a Space like KV (16:25) The KV Advisory Board (17:40) ‘Contemporary’ Kink Culture (18:45) What is Possible Inside KV (19:55) The Queer Kink Community (20:30) We Release the Gimp

8 Jan 202421min

Eva Oh interviews her main BDSM slave, m. This intimate conversation offers a unique look into the Dominatrix-submissive relationship, and the extraordinary dynamics that shape it. m sheds light on his journey from fear to complete surrender, candidly discussing his initial hesitance and intrigue, his struggle to let go, and the allure of Eva Oh’s dominating personality that finally led him to cherish the power exchange. Join us as we delve deeper into the dynamics of BDSM relationships, exploring intimacy, trust, and the profound fulfilment they can offer. More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet My Main Slave, m (00.35) - The Foot Cam (00.56) - How We Met (02:10) - Ruling m’s Thoughts (02:40) - Why m Was Interested in Me (03:55) - m ‘Letting Go’ (05:25) - m’s Second Thoughts (06.20) - My ’Strong Personality’ (07.20) - m’s Fears and Attempted Manipulations (08:10) - The Ruler will Rule (08:50) - Rejection, Acceptance and Trust (10.30) - Preconceptions Meeting Reality (11.40) - m’s Growing Relationship to Pain and Resilience (12.20) - Taking Lessons from BDSM into m’s Workplace (13.30) - Love and Lust (15.00) - m Learning Compassion (15:30) - Why m Has Learned So Much (16.30) - What Our Day to Day Looks Like (19.15) - Navigating Expectations (20.13) - Communicating Needs and Understanding Each Other (22.35) - Sexuality and Intimacy (27.00) - m’s Concept of BDSM before Meeting Me vs Now (29.55) - m’s Hopes for The Future (31.00) - m’s Question for Me, Why Do I Accept Him? (35.30) - The Importance of Hearing the Submissive Voice (39.00) - How Vanilla Relationships Fit, or Don’t

2 Jan 202440min