The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics10 Jun 2024

BDSM: Are you surprised to find out we love to be a sensual sadist?

Today’s episode is inspired by several pets who acted surprised to hear that Mistress Olivia likes pain play and rough kink.

It starts with this quote from one submissive:
“You are just such a nice person. And you have a sweet natural demeanor. Even though you can turn into a firm Domme in the blink of an eye, I didn’t think pain play was a fun thing for you.”

Both ladies talk about being a Femdom and a sensual sadist.

You’ll hear answers to these questions from another treasured pet and listener who wants to hear more about sadism and masochism. Michael asks:
How common is it for a sensual dom to also have a little bit of a sadistic streak?
and
Is it typical for this to be a frequent activity in a loving and nurturing relationship?

Topics include:
Sharing experiences with the S/m part of BDSM
Various expectation of a Mistress
How do you know you’re correct about your assumptions of her, who she is and what she likes?
How can you tell if a sensual Femdom also enjoys rough kink?
How does consent work with risk aware BDSM and kink?

This is a peek behind the scenes as each Femdom talks about BDSM scenes gone awry when a sub doesn’t obey, how each lady feels when that happens and how it changes her feelings towards the bratty sub. By the end of the episode you'll know that in scene domination is different from the podcast and both ladies love delivering an intense kink session that includes pain play.

Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

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