Ep. 29 - Only Fans and Tiger King (w/ Riley)

Welcome back to quarantine with Dani and Riley! What is happening in the world, like seriously?! This week we: address the North Van poop lady, review the Lost Girls movie, discuss Only Fans concerns, voice our corona curiosity, and appoint our loser of the week (some disgusting slob of a man who is publicly claiming that OF girls will never find love). Shout out to @thewavedancer for being a supportive fellow SW, providing us with some stay or go scenarios and just being an overall gem of a human! And lastly... DM me and let me know what you guys would want for 50 PLUS A TIP merch! Crop tops, hoodies, pleaser bags, phone grips?! TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT!! Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

16 Apr 202049min

Today I am joined by Dora Kola (@dorakola) , a 24 year old exotic entertainer and badass entrepreneur based in Vancouver, Canada. If you follow Dora on Instagram (which you fucking better!!) you know she’s a no-fucks-given rocker chick who is unapologetically herself. We talk: her education and career in radio, how SW is real fucking work, slut shaming, racism in the sex industry, the fetishization of Asian women, and proudly owning who and what we are.  As always, thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

8 Apr 20201h 3min

We all know dating is HARD! But dating as a SW is a whole other thing!! This week I sit down with PR girl Halina to discuss: not being “out” as a SW, making friends in the sex industry, how to navigate the dating scene as a SW, how dating impacts your income, and how being a SW impacts your sex drive.  Also - real talk: why do these men want a “hot” woman but can’t handle it when they get one?!  Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

26 Mar 20201h 5min

Hello lovelies! I’m joined once again by Riley and we are recapping: corona virus pandemic, Dani’s birthday & sfu lecture, psycho exes and their terrible families, and our (embarrassingly subpar) skin care routines. We answer your questions: does your mood effect which songs you dance to? What do strip clubs do to increase your safety? Does your boss create safe spaces for you? What happens when dancers want to retire ? Also, do we stay or go when: They only brush their teeth once a day; always wear camouflage; doesn’t own a car (or a license); has dirty finger nails; bulk bought toilet paper and hand sanitizer at the start of corona virus?  Thanks for listening and happy hoeing - Now go wash your hands!!

18 Mar 202045min

This week I am joined by Sahara Rose - a charismatic, fiery blonde, with ten years of experience in the industry. What started out as a means to make a few extra bucks, turned into a passion for self expression and a way to channel her outgoing personality towards a career. We talk: how the industry has changed over the last decade, how everyone is a prostitute, coworker dynamics, staying safe in the industry, dealing with stalker clients, and how we predict the industry will change in the future.  Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

12 Mar 20201h 24min

Hello lovely listeners! We are officially at 5000 followers and accepting sponsors! So hit us up if you or someone you know is looking for a dope ass podcast to sponsor!  Some other fun dates to note: Dani’s birthday is coming up this weekend, the next erotica dance workshop will be held in April (date TBA) and Dani will be guest lecturing at SFU March 12th. On this week’s episode we recap Riley’s birthday weekend, discuss when it’s a good idea to move in with a partner, talk how to recover after being rejected from a club after auditioning, how to ask someone about their sexual health (STI status/ history), and how to get a guy to wear a condom when they really don’t want to.  Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

5 Mar 20201h 4min

On this week’s episode, Riley and I have the pleasure of interviewing an American couple living in New Zealand who recently dove into a "sluttaissance" together. Think “swinging” (sort of) but with a hot young husband and wife who have so much love and trust in one another, exploring their sexuality with other people as a couple. Libby (a naturopath) and Gregg (with a doctorate in psychology) answered our many questions with openness and humour: do your friends/family know about your sexual situation? How did you know that this was something you wanted to try? How did you first begin your journey into it? What has been the most challenging aspect? Is it ever uncomfortable/ awkward? Can you go back to monogamy after exploring being poly as a couple? How do you meet other open individuals / couples? And WHO THE FUCK CAME IN HER EYE?!! Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

26 Feb 20201h 12min