David Chambers - Coaching Men, Love, and the Fear of Feeling

David Chambers - Coaching Men, Love, and the Fear of Feeling

On this episode of the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh sits down with David Chambers, a coach helping men deepen their capacity for love. They unpack his past in the pick-up artist community, why he initially resisted becoming a coach, and what actually makes a good one. From the parallels between coaching and domination to men’s fears around love and attunement, they explore what holds people back from empathy and connection. Plus, they dive into Vipassana, the patriarchy, universal basic income—and whether aliens might just save us all.


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More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com


HIGHLIGHTS:

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(00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:00:21) - Why David Chambers Helps Men to Love More Deeply

(00:01:50) - How Love Has Changed For David Since He Became a Coach

(00:06:25) - Why and How David Started to Change His Experience of Life

(00:11:00) - Who Asks for David’s Help and Why?

(00:12:10) - David’s Own Coaches

(00:14:25) - Eva’s Initial Mistrust of Coaches

(00:16:40) - David’s Pick Up Artist Coaching and Community

(00:22:35) - David Didn’t Want to be a Coach

(00:23:20) - What Makes a Good Coach

(00:25:40) - A Dominatrix Coaching Circle?

(00:27:50) - Managing Client Numbers as a Coach

(00:30:20) - Parallels between Dominatrix and Coaches

(00:31:25) - The Benefits of Coaching in Groups

(00:34:00) - David’s Fear of Expressing Love

(00:36:30) - What are Men Afraid of and How to Work with Their Fears

(00:41:25) - Men’s Approaches Towards Women and ‘Attunement’

(00:53:10) - Eva’s Perspective Building ‘Walking Exercise’ with Her Clients

(00:56:40) - Why People Hide from Feeling Empathy

(00:59:10) - The Patriarchy, Reparations, Gisèle Pelicot and What Do We Do About It

(01:08:00) - Leaning into Challenge, Disagreement and Moving Out of Reaction

(01:10:00) - Vipasanna Meditation and Rewriting Our Relationship to Pain

(01:14:00) - Universal Basic Income and Greed

(01:15:00) - Will Aliens Save Us?!

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I Love Men Crying: Sports and the Dungeon, the Intersection

I Love Men Crying: Sports and the Dungeon, the Intersection

Ready to challenge perceptions of men, emotions, and sports? Join me in exploring the intriguing links between the fervor of a pub during a match and the emotional liberation I witness in my work as a Dominatrix. This episode uncovers the beauty of unfiltered emotions, the spaces that allow them, and the power they hold. We'll delve into the story of my first profoundly moving session — a testament to human vulnerability. We’ll journey through sports tribalism, my admiration for teams like Manchester City, and the importance of allowing ourselves to express our emotions. Let’s unravel the complexity of men's emotions, the societal pressure they face, and the courage it takes to allow oneself to truly feel. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - My Discovery. Men Crying at the Pub. (06:30) - Tribalism (07:55) - Manchester City (08:45) - Parallels to the Freedom of Emotion in My Work (12:32) - The First Time a Man Cried for Me (16:00) - What Does Everyone Want? (17:15) - What is Sexuality? (19:40) - How Will Emotion be Integrated in a Tech-driven World? (22:45) - My Emotional Sadism (25:15) - My Masochism and Meditation (26:20) - Freedom (31:15) - Everyone’s Problem

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Becoming an AI Companion: The First Episode of a Series?

Becoming an AI Companion: The First Episode of a Series?

What happens when a seasoned Dominatrix steps into the world of AI companionship? Brace yourself as I, Eva Oh, navigate the murky waters of digital domination. We will delve into the technologies behind creating AI companions. From collecting OnlyFans chats to photos and audio samples, companies are asking to gather myriad inputs to create a digital doppelgänger of me. However, how does this sync with my stand on image ownership and personal attachment? Exhilarating and unnerving, join me as I recount my unique experience with a tech billionaire-owned company in Singapore, muse over possible government regulation, and contemplate the future of synthetic relationships. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Should I Become an AI Companion? (03:53) - AI Companies Approaching (08:03) - Chinese Tech Billionaires, Will I Win? (11:34) - Exploring AI Avatars and Personal Attachment (15:20) - Why am I Considering This? Why Do I Do Anything? (15:59) - Engaging with Our Own Humanity Through AI Companionship (18:04) - Challenging Societal Norms (19:27) - Using Our Rights (21:39) - Why Work At All? (21:58) - Centre of Humane Technology, Lawyers, Information and Risk (23:37) - Risk, Thrill Values as Motivators? (26:23) - Journaling LINKS: 'Your Undivided Attention' Podcast, https://www.humanetech.com/podcast Center for Humane Technology, https://www.humanetech.com/

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My Origin Story: From Corporate Slave to Dominatrix

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Ever wondered about breaking free from those conforming roles we play? I'm Eva Oh, and I'll take you on my unconventional journey into the world of the Dominatrix. It started with a joke from my ex about my assertiveness. Little did I know this would lead me to becoming one. Brace yourself as I guide you through uncharted territory, on how I quit the corporate world, to sharing my first day on the job as a Dominatrix, and recounting my exhilarating first session. I reflect on society's view of sex work too. This episode is just the start of a series where I share experiences, insights, and lessons I've learned. Come along for the ride! More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Becoming a Dominatrix (01:39) - Women's Assertiveness and Societal Perceptions (04:51) - From Strategic Consultant to Dominatrix (08:51) - First Day as Mistress, New Experiences (15:06) - A Special First Shadowing Experience (21:10) - Exploring BDSM and Personal Enjoyment (27:56) - Work Dungeon to Personal Business Transition (33:40) - The Power of Non-Judgmental Intimacy (35:35) - Sex Work and Society's Perception

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