save the work for the work (a re-release)

save the work for the work (a re-release)


Save the work until you get to the work.


So often, we get caught up in our heads about potential problems and our workloads that we basically double the work on our plate by basically having to go through it twice.


Have you ever been driving to work and pre-writing emails, or pre-planning meetings, or predicting problems?


How many times have you left a job and started planning for the next day? Or worse - deciding what you can finish when you get home?

Some jobs don’t allow you to leave the work at work - but I still encourage you to schedule in adequate time to take c are of yourself so you don’t burn out.


In the show abbott elementary - which I cant get enough of and think everyone should watch immediately it’s so funny and heartfelt - but in case you haven’t seen it I will butcher a beautiful moment in my retelling of an episode where the main character was trying to do everything in her power to “save the school” on her own and she kinda screws everything up in a comedy of errors and another teacher offers a beautiful monologue explaining that the more experienced teachers aren’t stepping into the line of fire because they don’t care but because they don’t want to burn out. We care so much we refuse to burn out. If we burn out who’s here for the kids?

And that’s something I had to learn the hard way as a teacher. I had to learn that in order to make the difference i was so desperate to make - I had to preserve my own wellbeing first. I had to create healthy boundaries or id work myself to the bone and never be able to recover.


If you take it like a staircase instead of a projectile, you’re less likely to fall straight back down to the earth.


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1855 || obedience feels safe, but it isn't

1855 || obedience feels safe, but it isn't

"We produce machines that are like men and men who are like machines." "Why is man so prone to obey and why is it so difficult for him to disobey? As long as I am obedient to the power of the State, t...

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1854 || question authority + push back

1854 || question authority + push back

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1853 || practical guide to resisting the surveillance state

1853 || practical guide to resisting the surveillance state

Reject the surveillance state. Trash your Alexa. Drown your ring camera. Reject all unnecessary permissions. Turn off any added access where possible. Stop using google for everyday searches. Poison t...

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1852 || rejecting obedience

1852 || rejecting obedience

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1851 || the mask, the shadow, the animus, the self

1851 || the mask, the shadow, the animus, the self

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13 Sep 10min

1850 || you are what you avoid

1850 || you are what you avoid

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1849 || when intentions aren't enough

1849 || when intentions aren't enough

You're not broken, you're human. And being human is often difficult and contradictory work. Shadow work is grounded in deep internal reflection, not self-optimization. "Jung describes the shadow as co...

9 Sep 10min

1848 || being the "good guy" vs. becoming the villain

1848 || being the "good guy" vs. becoming the villain

Confidence, drive, boundary setting, focus, and self-led intention are considered "bad traits" in a patriarchal society, but they aren't.https://moral-ranking.fandom.com/wiki/Villainshttps://meridianu...

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