How to Navigate A World Bent On Not Talking To Each Other – David Grasso

It's time to drop the shame around what shames us and let our KINKS fly, even if that means you want to be who you are in the boardroom. English Leather Master Matthew Bennett shares how you can be who you are in all aspects of life and not let your Kinks and Fetishes hold you back from being a powerful gay man, in and out of the bedroom. About Matthew Matthew is a coach and hypnotherapist for LGBT+ and kinky people, a lifestyle dominant and an online content creator. With a varied background in education, assessment, sales and management, he has found a way to bring all areas of his life together through his work. Much of this is done through his kink persona, English Leather Master. Matthew is an International Coach Federation accredited business and life coach, a registered hypnotherapist with the British Society of Clinical Hypnotherapist, has a degree in Physics and a Masters in Educational Leadership and Management. He has given talks in over 13 countries around the world, and online to audiences of over 1000 people at a time. As comfortable in a suit coaching a CEO through business change as he is in full leather with his boy making content for his fans sites, Matthew believes that everyone deserves to have a better life whatever their sexuality, gender or interests and offers a safe space for people to explore their lives and work with no judgement or shame. Connect With Matthew Website Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Live gay life - no excuses, no fears, no apologies! You can also listen to the podcast on…

15 Sep 202342min

From an HIV diagnosis, to surviving narcissistic relationships, Grant Miller has found the best path through obstacles and boulders of life is simply through and around them. Sharing his insights of living his gay life to the fullest, Grant shares truths that will help you see you are not alone and you can thrive, even in the worst of times. Plus, he talks about his debut, gay science fiction book, Life-Line: Origins. About Grant Grant is a Grade 6 French Immersion Teacher and Author, living in a small town in rural Nova Scotia, Canada. Born in Toronto, Ontario, Grant has lived in many of the major cities in Canada but has decided to call Nova Scotia his home as he approaches retirement. Grant has recently self-published his first novel entitled, Life-Line: Origins and is currently working on the next two books in the gay science fiction series. He loves to relax and unwind in the kitchen after a long day of working with children in the classroom. Grant enjoys weightlifting and exercise as a mainstay in his life. He also has many varied hobbies and activities that he wants to pursue when he retires. Grant’s 60 years on this planet have been filled with what he calls speed bumps, barriers and roadblocks that have gotten in his way as he navigated his life as a gay man from the 1980’s until now. Encountering each of these hurdles has caused him to find a way to grow and become a more authentic gay man. His favourite saying is “Carpe diem” as he explores what is to come as he starts a new stage in his life. Connect With Grant Website Facebook Instagram Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies P.S. get your free My Bold Life Manifesto, right here - rickclemons.com/manifesto/ You can also listen to the podcast on…

8 Sep 202351min

If you've ever felt betrayed,or traumatized in your journey as a gay man, this episode is for you. Jason (Jay) Galvez, a Betrayal Trauma Practitioner and Intrapersonal Relationship Coach guides us through powerful insights for releasing the trauma of betrayal and finding ways to be at peace. About Jason Mr. Jay is a Betrayal Trauma Practitioner and Intrapersonal Relationship Coach.  He holds a Master's Degree in Education, is ministry credentialed, a certified special education teacher, an author of a children's book, “I Am Loved Right Where I Am, a veteran of the United States military, an Inspirational public speaker, adoptive parent and much more. His childhood was anything but success.  After years of drugs, alcohol and years in Special Education, Mr. Jay quit school in sixth grade ultimately living on the streets falling victim to abuse after abuse. After the second gun to his temple Mr. Jay vowed to fix himself so he could help fix others. Determined, Mr. Jay put himself through school researching self-help books, therapy, psychology, and spirituality.  Mr. Jay learned, and stands by his motto, “The Relationship You Have With Yourself Sets the Tone for All Other Relationships Around You" and says, "Relationships can break you but even broken crayons can create beautiful masterpieces. Jay is very much a family man. When he's not coaching or public speaking, he loves spending time with his family. He has a son and  daughter and they are his world. He also loves spending time with extended family. When he has time, he enjoys taking the family to the local zoo and – just between you and him -his guilty pleasures are watching Investigation Discovery and Animal Planet. Connect With Jason Website Instagram Facebook Twitter YouTube LinkedIn Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies P.S. get your free My Bold Life Manifesto, right here - rickclemons.com/manifesto/ You can also listen to the podcast on… <img...

1 Sep 202352min

Imagine losing yourself and finding yourself. But what you lost came and found you in the most unique way. Kendall and Corey Stulce share a unique story of Kendall finding himself and his family of origin, and how adoption and rediscovering his roots impacted his life as a gay man. About Corey and Kendall I’m Kendall Austin Stulce and was born in 1970, and immediately was adopted by the Austins. Until 2017, I knew nothing about my biological family. My partner, Corey, gave me an Ancestry.com DNA test for my birthday in 2017, and I immediately matched with my half-brother who had been looking for me since 1988. I suddenly found out that my birth parents are still living (separately) and each went on to have 3 other children. So after feeling like an only child all my life, I learned that I have 6 half-siblings and 13 nieces and nephews! In 2017, Corey and I lived in the San Francisco Bay Area but moved to New England in January 2018, to be near my biological father and 2 of my half-siblings and their children. I love telling my story! Connect With Corey and Kendall Website Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Live gay life - no excuses, no fears, no apologies! You can also listen to the podcast on…

25 Aug 202341min

What can we learn from those that have passed on? Whether it be a pet, a family member, or even a spouses former partner, if we tune in to the essence of those who are no longer with us, we might just learn something about living life now. Author Rob Gutro shares his unique gift of hearing the messages from beyond in today's podcast. About Rob Rob Gutro is an author, paranormal investigator and medium with Inspired Ghost Tracking of Maryland. Since he was a teen, he could receive messages from ghosts or spirits (who have crossed over). As a scientist, he also provides some scientific explanations about how energy is the baseline for the afterlife and the medium that entities use to communicate. In 2005, Rob's late puppy passed and inspired Rob to write his first book and enabled him to communicate with pets. In his book, "KIndred Spirits: How a Medium Befriended a Spirit" Rob shares how he got to know his now husband's late partner (whom I never met in life), shares how he brought them together, sent an amazing look-alike to rescue him and his husband when they got lost in England. Rob participates in private paranormal investigations, helps ghosts crossover, and has provided countless messages from people or pets as ghosts or spirits. He lived in a haunted house, too! Connect With Rob Website Instagram LinkedIn Upcoming Events Sacred Men's Retreat, San Miguel de Allende, MX: Sept 17-23 Connect San Francisco Workshop: May 5-7 Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Live your gay life - no excuses, no fears, no apologies. You can also listen to the podcast on… <img...

18 Aug 202337min

It hits. The big 4-0, and then something even worse happens and no one can quite believe how that happened to you, and when it happened to you on your 40th birthday. (You'll have to listen to the podcast and read the book to discover what). From that moment on you realize, you are on your own, that pole dancing and rock climbing aren't for you, and that you don't need the love of another to love yourself. Wiser words were never said than by today's guest, author Jonathan Lee. Explore his new book, 40 Single Gay, and the lessons he's learned that will make you realize...you're not alone. About Jonathan Jonathan Lee is an indie author, counsellor, trainee life coach and social care manager of twenty years. He’s also a son, a brother, a friend, and a gay man. His debut novel 40 Single Gay, a coming of age memoir, comically depicts his 40th year as he comes to terms with this chapter in his life whilst he unpicks his failed relationships, re-enters the world of dating and one night stands before realizing the important things in life. Born in Cornwall, England where he has recently returned to live, Jonathan starts each day walking bare foot on the beach with his beloved dog. He’s a people watcher, a people pleaser and an avid tea drinker! Jonathan believes we all have the ability for change and development to live a rich and fulfilled life. Connect with Jonathan Instagram Join Our Live 40 Plus Gay Men, Gay Talk Chats The third Monday of each month at 5:00 p.m. Pacific, we gather together on a zoom chat to talk about the stuff us gay gays aren't talking about but should - careers, finances, sex, love, health, coming out - all that stuff that we think we're talking about but aren't. It's fun, it builds community, and you never know when you just might make a great connection or a friend. Click Here To Join The Calls! You can also listen to the podcast on…

11 Aug 202338min

Finding yourself, reaching deep into the essence of who you are as a gay man, is a lifelong journey. Yet, with the right tools and guidance, your journey can be enhanced, and discoveries of clarity and consciousness can be achieved, sooner rather than later. Rob Grover and Gary Logan, founders of The Journeymen Collective share how they as a couple have found a new path to living life to its fullest while guiding others in their quest using guided magic mushroom and other psilocybin experiences to open the doorways to a whole new way of being in the world.  About Gary and Robert Rob Grover and Gary Logan are the founders of The Journeymen Collective, the company creating luxury guided magic mushroom retreats at their center in British Columbia, Canada. They’ve hosted CEOs, entrepreneurs, athletes, actors, couples, and small groups invested in the highest level of self-discovery and personal development through psychedelic plant based medicine Guiding guests through contemporary ceremonies using psilocybin, the pair have a combined 50+ years of education in spiritual and metaphysical training, executive level mindset coaching, energetic healing modalities, Alexander Technique lessons, and provide support embodying and integrating the transformational retreat. Visitors are immersed in an extraordinary personalized experience that often results in accelerating attendees' success and their intentions to create a conscious impact on the world. The Journeymen Collective's luxury guided mushroom retreats. They are carefully curated for solo, power partner (two people), or small groups of 3 to 4 and include 2 deeply intensive mushroom ceremonies with 2 days of restful integration. They also offer their international clientele 4 months of support with calls to prepare before and afterwards, and honor their guests’ highest potential by creating a safe space in a luxurious environment that leads to an ultra high quality experiential discovery process. Connect With Gary and Robert Website Instagram Facebook Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies P.S. get your free My Bold Life Manifesto, right here - rickclemons.com/manifesto/ You can also listen to the podcast on… <a...

4 Aug 202339min

You reach a point in life where you realize that you gotta be how you want to be, and do what ya gotta do. For over 30 years Bob Bolyard, a.k.a. as Amber LeMay has been providing entertainment, support, and raising money, not just for the LGBTQ+ community but in the world at large, and nothing is going to stop him/her. Join us for a fun conversation about letting yourself be yourself in the world, even as a gay guy over 40. About Amber LeMay Bob Bolyard, 67 years old, identifies as a cis gay man. Lives in Burlington, Vermont. Works in the Clinical Simulation Laboratory at the University of Vermont as a Standardized Patient Educator. For the past 30 years has appeared as Amber LeMay from the drag troupe The House of LeMay, raising hundreds of thousands of dollars and awareness for various groups and charities. Connect With Court Website Facebook Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies You can also listen to the podcast on…

28 Jul 202336min