BONUS EPISODE~ Crime Con 2025

In this special bonus episode of Papi Killed Mommy, I share my very first CrimeCon experience — a three-day whirlwind in Denver that was emotional, overwhelming, and unforgettable.

The journey started on the road: 900 miles, 14 hours, my best friend Melissa by my side, and my emotional support pup, Dickie Birdie, curled up in the backseat. Between reroutes, pouring rain, thick fog, and deer threatening to dart across the road, the drive was intense. We kept each other laughing and passed the time listening to hours of Crime Weekly. By the time we rolled into Denver at 3:00 a.m., I was exhausted but ready.

Nothing could have prepared me for the emotions of walking into the convention hall the next morning. Within minutes, I spotted Sherrilyn Dale — one of the first creators to cover my mom's story, and someone who had donated to help get me to CrimeCon. I burst into tears. Suddenly I was surrounded by people who had spoken my mom's name out loud, who had amplified her story on their platforms.

The rest of the weekend felt surreal. Podcasters I'd admired from afar — Generation Why, Killer Queens, Crime Salad, Moms & Mysteries, Navigating Advocacy — all stopped by. Media giants like Court TV, Dateline, and Law and Crime were everywhere. But the most powerful part wasn't the "big names." It was the listeners, survivors, families, and advocates who came to my booth, looked me in the eye, and told me they cared about my mom's story.

CrimeCon also forced me to face a big decision. A company approached me about monetizing my podcast. At first, I resisted — I've always been afraid of looking like I was profiting from my mom's death. But after conversations with other creators and advocates, I realized this isn't about profit. It's about sustainability. If I want to keep sharing my mom's story, traveling to events, and building this platform, I can't keep relying only on my listeners to carry the financial burden. So, I've decided to monetize the rest of Season One and all of Season Two — not for me, but for my mom, for justice, and for every family like mine.

And here's the announcement: Season Two of Papi Killed Mommy is officially happening. This season belongs to my mom and will continue until justice comes, but Season Two will expand to cover other domestic violence cases. My best friend Melissa — my partner in Denver, my rock through CrimeCon — will join me as co-host. Together, we'll bring new voices, new cases, and new energy to the show.

CrimeCon also made one thing painfully clear: despite encouraging words from officials, my mom's case is not being actively investigated. Emails from both the Yavapai County Attorney's Office and Sedona PD reveal contradictions and carefully chosen language — "ongoing investigation," "annual review," "if any" new information. In the end, Sedona PD admitted the truth: this is a cold case review, not an open homicide investigation. My mom deserves better.

So here's my call to action. Please stand with me:
📞 Call the Yavapai County Attorney's Office at (928) 771-3344
📧 Email them at ycao@yavapaiaz.gov
— demand they pursue justice.

📞 Call the Sedona Police Department at (928) 282-3100
📧 Email sfoley@sedonaaz.gov
— insist they reactivate my mom's case.

📞 Contact the Sedona Red Rock News at (928) 282-7795
📧 Email editor@redrocknews.com
— tell them to report this story from the family's perspective.

CrimeCon reminded me that I am not alone. People care. My mom's story matters. And with your help, I'll never stop fighting for justice.

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