Parenting Teens: The Hard Truth No One Tells You (And the Shift That Actually Works)

Parenting Teens: The Hard Truth No One Tells You (And the Shift That Actually Works)

It’s every parent’s worst nightmare: hearing the words “I hate you” come out of your child’s mouth. The kid you’d do anything for now looks at you like you’re the enemy. But what if that moment wasn’t the end of your connection… but the beginning of something deeper?


In this powerful, eye-opening episode, Kristin sits down with pediatric psychologist and author Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart (Love the Teen You Have) to unpack what’s really going on when your kid lashes out, slams the door, rolls their eyes, or says things that cut deep. You’ll learn what’s happening in their brain during those heated moments, why your teen or tween pushes you away, and how to stay calm even when every nerve in your body wants to scream back.


Through raw honesty, relatable examples, and practical tools, this conversation is your roadmap for staying grounded in the chaos and connected through the storm. If you’ve ever walked away from an argument with your child thinking “Did I just ruin everything?” then this episode is for you.


You’ll walk away with:

- Concrete scripts for what to say in the heat of the moment

- A better understanding of your child’s emotional and brain development

- The #1 mistake parents make that pushes teens further away

- Tools to repair after a blowup and rebuild trust

- A reminder that you’re not alone, and you’re doing better than you think


Your kid doesn’t hate you. Their brain is under construction. And you? You’re exactly the parent they need. Tune in — this one could change everything.


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29 Nov 202348min

Your Burning Parenting Questions, ANSWERED!

Your Burning Parenting Questions, ANSWERED!

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22 Nov 202341min

Besties in Business: How We Turned Sheer Passion into a Thriving Business (and You Can Too!)

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15 Nov 202351min

Shyness is a Superpower: The Secret to Raising Secure, Confident Kids

Shyness is a Superpower: The Secret to Raising Secure, Confident Kids

We’re talking about why being shy isn’t a bad thing—in fact, “shyness,” aka listening to your inner voice that tells you to pause before blindly following the pact, can be a real SUPERPOWER as your kid gets older! Join us as we bust through the myth that only outgoing kids are the confident ones and share why shy kids are actually incredibly self-assured and self-aware. PLUS: Game-changing tips to help your child feel comfortable in new situations What to do EXACTLY in the moment when your kid is feeling nervous or scared How to build your kid’s confidence and foster resilience while preserving their inner voice 5 easy strategies you can start using TODAY to support “shy” kids and shift them into full-on thriving mode The *secrets* to raising secure, confident, self-assured children A surprise guest joins us mid-episode! Any guesses? The transcript of this episode can be found here! To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

8 Nov 202345min

Pushing Past Perfection: The Parenting Tool That Will Save Your Life

Pushing Past Perfection: The Parenting Tool That Will Save Your Life

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1 Nov 202336min

Ghosts, Goblins, Meltdowns Oh My: Handling and Preventing Halloween Tantrums

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Halloween is SO fun, and? Like with any fun, exciting thing in toddlerhood, it comes with TONS of meltdowns and tantrums. But don't worry, this episode gives you *everything* you'll need to make this Halloween the best EVER. Get game-changing hacks to handle tantrums - and even straight up prevent some! PLUS:  Get the inside scoop on our night on Watch What Happens Live hanging with Andy Cohen and The Real Housewives (Spoiler alert: It was the best day of Kristin's life)  Learn the ultimate costume hack so your kid *might* actually wear it for trick-or-treating! An answer to the dreaded candy question: How much candy should you let them eat on Halloween night?!  Get a step-by-step plan for when your toddler feels scared  Find out our #1 tip that will totally transform your Halloween night!  Download a full transcript of this episode here  To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

25 Okt 202330min

The Stay-at-Home Vs. Working Parent Debate: What’s Best for Your Kids?

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On today’s episode, we tackle a true hot button topic: Is it better for your kids if you are a working parent or a stay-at-home parent? (Spoiler alert: Both are jobs, both are hard, both are rewarding, aaaannd you’re doing an amazing job!) Join us as we dive into the research and unpack our own unique journeys as parents, including insight from former stay-at-home daddy, Kristin’s husband Tyler (back by popular demand!). You'll leave feeling empowered and beyond proud of yourself, PLUS: Get specific tools for releasing the guilt, so that you can feel confident in your own situation Leverage what the research says about achievement, success, and behaviors between children with a stay-at-home parent or without one Bust through the gender biases that moms and dads face when it comes to working or staying home Tips for finding the right fit for YOUR family  Why either choice is both challenging and rewarding, and how to get rid of the whole "grass is always greener" feeling  Rapid-fire advice from Kristin, Deena, and Tyler, empowering you to feel confident in whatever role you’re currently in Find the transcript here! To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

18 Okt 20231h 3min

How to Raise Resilient Kids: Parenting Kids with Respect Doesn’t Create a Generation of Snowflakes

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