Is BDSM Actually About Pain? Six Myths People Believe Walking In
Almost everyone arrives at this subject carrying a picture of it they didn't build themselves — assembled from films, headlines, jokes and a novel someone's colleague read. A lot of people spend years...
1 Sep 5min
What Is a Safeword, Really? How They Work and What Happens When You Use One
Everyone has heard of safewords. Almost nobody could explain how one actually works — and most people feel too awkward to ask. In this episode we unpack the single most practical piece of safety equip...
29 Aug 5min
How Do You Tell a Partner You're Into Kink?
The hardest part of kink is almost never the kink. It is the sentence you would have to say to someone you love. This is the question people ask least and want answered most: how do you actually raise...
28 Aug 8min
What Actually Happens at Your First Play Party? The Etiquette Nobody Warns You About
Nearly everyone builds a picture of a play party long before they ever stand outside one — and the picture is almost always wrong in the same direction. Too intense, too crowded, too fast, and full of...
27 Aug 5min
