131 - The Importance of Boundaries after Betrayal
Boundaries aren't just helpful for the hurt spouse, they are crucial for the recovering spouse as well. They can create structure, offer safety and give the betrayed partner the information they need ...
27 Aug 202552min
130 - Compliance vs Proactivity How to Help your Betrayed Partner Feel Safe and Heal
In this episode, Kylene and Patrick explore the difference between compliance—“just checking the boxes”, and true proactivity, where personal responsibility becomes the driving force of recovery. The...
20 Aug 202550min
129 - Healthy Sexuality after Betrayal and Infidelity
In today’s episode, Kylene and Patrick discuss healthy sexuality after betrayal, addiction and infidelity. What is healthy sexuality? Why is consent so important and what does that look like? They...
13 Aug 20251h 7min
128 - BONUS: Is Attraction the same as Lusting?
In today’s brief episode, Kylene and Patrick continue the conversation from last time, where they explored the difference between finding someone attractive and feeling sexual arousal in recovery. Thi...
8 Aug 202528min
127 -Noticing vs. Arousal: When is attraction too much?
In today's episode Kylene and Patrick answer a question about a recovering addict being attracted to women in yoga pants. When is noticing someone is attractive a threat to the betrayed partner or to ...
6 Aug 202556min
126 - What Betrayed Partners Need Most from the Addict who Hurt Them
In this episode, Kylene and Patrick explore five essential things a betrayed partner needs from their spouse in order to truly heal. They unpack each element with depth and honesty, including: Takin...
30 Jul 202559min
125 - BONUS: Parenting and Divorce - Patrick's Perspective
In this short episode. Patrick reflects on his divorce, and parenting through that time. He shares his perspective and lived experience of divorce after infidelity, and starting over with almost nothi...
30 Jul 202524min
124 - Conquer Intrusive Thoughts after Betrayal and Infidelity
Today, Kylene walks through what steps can help us navigate triggers and calm ruminating thoughts after betrayal. She discusses: 1. Why safety is the foundation that has to be laid first and what t...
23 Jul 202548min
