Starting Over at 52: The Day I Chose New Lenses
At 52, John realizes how often we trade our truth for “membership” - relationships, status, the idea of success - and quietly disappear. From a house fire to shaving his head, he reframes love, loss, ...
10 Nov 202518min
Hard Things to Bring Up in Therapy | The Map for Messy Honesty
Rapid-fire answers to your biggest honesty hurdles: settling vs. standards, dating vs. marriage mindset, online dating that respects your time, inviting more sex without pressure, and handling reject...
6 Nov 202519min
Attachment Trauma Series PART 3: Healing Shame: Why Safe Love Feels Scary with Rebecca Prolman
In this part 3 of our Attachment series, therapist Rebecca Prolman joins John Kim to unpack how childhood misattunement wires shame, why anger isn’t the enemy, and how “emotional completion” helps you...
5 Nov 202551min
Attachment Trauma Series PART 2 - Connection, Attunement & the Love/Sex Split with Rebecca Prolman
John Kim and Rebecca Prolman unpack how childhood attachment wounds and the shame-based adaptations they create - shape adult relationships. They trace core capacities (connection, attunement, trust,...
3 Nov 202546min
How to Heal From Your Attachment Trauma Series with Rebecca Prolman PART 1
In Part 1 of this 3-episode series, John Kim and licensed therapist Rebecca Prolman break down attachment trauma in clear, human terms. They unpack emotional neglect, nervous-system dysregulation, the...
29 Okt 202541min
Falling for Your Therapist: Why It Happens & What It Means
What happens when therapy becomes personal? In this raw and honest conversation, John Kim talks with licensed therapist Rebecca Prolman about her real-life experience of falling for her therapist — an...
27 Okt 202542min
Hard Things to Bring Up in Therapy | Are You Loving the Wrong Way?
In this episode, John dives into some of the most honest, relatable, and raw relationship questions we all face — from managing triggers and attachment styles to knowing when it’s time to let go. If y...
23 Okt 202524min
Why Losing Everything Can Lead to Your Most Authentic Self
In this special episode, John Kim brings together five brilliant voices - Amy Chan, Terri Cole, Dene Logan, Vanessa Bennett, and Daniel Stewart - for a raw and honest conversation about love, grief, c...
22 Okt 20251h 18min
