
Expectations In Dating
In this episode, John and Vanessa answer listeners' questions about what healthy and unhealthy expectations are in dating, relationships, and marriage. John and Vanessa are launching their second eve...
21 Aug 202323min

Late Night Cravings & Dumping on People
In this episode, John shares a personal story about feeling bad about himself after giving into late night cravings, and parenthood. He also talks about the stories we tell ourselves based on how we f...
18 Aug 202315min

Break Up Stories
In this episode, John shares his and his clients break up stories (with their permission), and gives advice on what to do if you're experiencing, or going through a break up. Roughly ten minutes of s...
16 Aug 202339min

Why We Run In Relationships
In this episode, John and Vanessa answer listeners' questions and talk about why people run in their relationships. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th! ...
14 Aug 202328min

How To Not Think About Your Ex Anymore
In this episode, John and Vanessa answer a listener's question while they're on the go: how do I stop thinking about my ex? Both John and Vanessa give advice on what to do if you're always thinking ab...
11 Aug 202325min

Needs Are Foundational
In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss the importance of having and expressing your needs in a relationship as they drive on the freeway. They discuss their needs, how they communicate them, how th...
9 Aug 202331min

Why You May Believe You're Unlovable
In this episode, John does a deep dive on why a lot of his clients (and people in general) believe they're unlovable whether that's from experiences from childhood, getting cheated on, being in multip...
7 Aug 202320min

How a Lacking Mindset Can Pause Your Life
In this episode, John talks about how we can easily get sucked into a "lacking mindset" which will delay us from our goals and enjoying the present. He also talks about how to catch yourself when you'...
2 Aug 202318min




















