
122: Working with Infidelity and the Developmental Model with Kim Gist Miller
In this episode with Kimberly Gist Miller we talk about using the Developmental Model in working with Affairs. Many of the clients we work with have a lot of trauma and it is so important to know that...
31 Mar 202048min

121: Keeping the Hope In a Pandemic with Shane Birkel
This episode is a recording of a webinar I did recently with the Couples Therapist Couch Facebook group. We talk about the implications of this time during the coronavirus pandemic. The Couples Thera...
24 Mar 202053min

120: Moving Your Couples Therapy Practice Online with Clay Cockrell
In the last few days we are seeing changes in our whole society that are bigger and happening more quickly than anything else in decades. At some point in the coming weeks, most of us will have to con...
18 Mar 202042min

119: 5 Things Couples Therapists Should Know from a Sex Therapist with Martha Kauppi
Most Couples Therapists understand the importance of bringing sex into the conversation in couples therapy. Unfortunately, most feel unprepared to know what questions to ask, how to make clients feel ...
10 Mar 202049min

118: Running on Empty with Jonice Webb
We often see clients in our offices who are struggling with things like a lack of fulfillment, a deep sense that something isn't right with me, a feeling of disconnection, and a lack of emotional inte...
3 Mar 202038min

117: Where Does Masturbation Fit Into a Couple's Sex Life with Ari Tuckman
How is masturbation being used in the couple--as a path of least resistance to avoid confronting sexual/relational issues or as an add-on to an otherwise good shared sex life? How can couples balance ...
25 Feb 202055min

116: Attuning to the Attachment Dilemma with Ryan Rana
One of the most difficult thing we do as couples therapists is to get both members of a couple to feel like we get them and we want what is best for them. In this episode, EFT trainer and supervisor, ...
18 Feb 202047min

115: Janina Fisher on Working with Trauma in Couples Therapy
When couples are unable to communicate because they get emotionally escalated, it is often a result of trauma. Dr. Janina Fisher helps people become aware of these emotions and parts of themselves in ...
11 Feb 202044min


















