
#113 How to Learn BDSM Safely: Choosing the Right Kink Educator with AncillaL
How do you find good educators of BDSM?In this episode educator and author AncillaL returns to the podcast to explore one of the most important—and surprisingly overlooked—topics in kink: BDSM educati...
3 Jul 1h 12min

#112 The Psychology of Switching with Matcha
What happens when you're both dominant and submissive—and both feel completely authentic?In this episode I chat with Matcha to explore the psychology of switching, the emerging FemDaddy archetype, BDS...
30 Jun 36min

#111 The Psychology of Erotic Permission: Julieta Chiara on Submission, Shibari & Becoming Yourself
What happens when you finally give yourself permission to desire what you truly want?In this episode I chat with sex therapist and Shibari practitioner Julieta Chiara to explore the psychology of subm...
29 Jun 1h 7min

#110 The Psychology of Ecstasy: Barbara Carrellas on Tantra, Desire & Human Flourishing
What if sexuality wasn't simply about pleasure—but about becoming more fully alive?Grab your Splashblanket here - don't forget to use the code eroticrealm at checkout for a 10% discount!In this episod...
23 Jun 1h 5min

#109 The Mommy Domme: Nurturing Dominance, BDSM & the Psychology of Acceptance with Mistress Mira
What happens when dominance is expressed through care rather than control?In this episode of The Erotic Realm, I sit down with Mistress Mira — professional Dominatrix and Mommy Domme, to explore the p...
19 Jun 57min

#108 The Kink Curious Wife: Marriage, Desire & Erotic Self-Discovery with J
What happens when curiosity about other people's desires leads you to discover your own?In this episode I sit down with J to explore a journey that began with curiosity and evolved into a deeper under...
16 Jun 57min

#107 The Porn Star's Daughter: Unbound Desire, Identity & Sexual Freedom with Laila Ocean
What happens when your earliest education about sexuality comes from growing up around the adult industry?In this episode I chat with filmmaker and storyteller Laila Ocean to explore her unique experi...
12 Jun 1h 4min

#106 Beyond Vanilla: An Asexual Dominatrix on Power, Discipline & Consent with Ms Hyde
What happens when BDSM isn't really about sex?In this episode I chat with Ms Hyde — an asexual disciplinarian, BDSM educator, life coach, author, and craftsperson — to explore the psychology of power,...
9 Jun 52min



















