LOANING A MAN MONEY?
Where do you draw the line of financially supporting a man you care about? Are men more likely to take advantage of generous women? What happens if that man can't pay you back? In this episode, join C...
29 Sep 20231h 14min
RAISING YOUR SELF-ESTEEM WHILE DATING
This episode was voted for by my patrons over on my Patreon! In the longest episode so far, join The Slumflower as she talks about raising your self-esteem, through the lens of observing rejection sen...
22 Sep 20231h 35min
ASKING FOR TOO MUCH OR ASKING THE WRONG MAN?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses: what's the difference between ‘being bought’ and being where your worth feels valued? Do you feel comfortable asking men for things or are you scared th...
15 Sep 20231h 29min
*SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT!*
You waited patiently and it's finally happening...THE SLUMFLOWER HOUR IS NOW ON PATREON! Over at my Patreon page, you can enjoy the following benefits: BONUS MINISODES: 2 x Monthly Exclusive Mini-so...
8 Sep 20236min
SO YOU CAUGHT HIM LYING...
Are men trustworthy? Are there times when it's okay for a man to lie to you? Are you too honest with men? In a rather hilarious episode, Chidera unpacks the reality that the man you love will at some ...
1 Sep 20231h 9min
BUT WHAT ABOUT LOVE?
Is a straight relationship devoid of love if the woman employs critical thought and strategy in how she shows up in the partnership? Can love and money co-exist? Has this generation missed out on what...
25 Aug 202340min
WHY YOUR BOUNDARIES AREN'T WORKING
Are you flimsy with your boundaries? Are you too forgiving of men? Do you find yourself being too agreeable and malleable? In this episode, Chidera discusses the idea of creating penalties when men hu...
17 Aug 202343min
SO YOU FUCKED HIM TOO SOON...NOW WHAT?
When is considered 'too soon' to sleep with a guy? Do men value it when you tell them 'I don't usually do this'? Are your sexual impulses sabotaging you? In this hilarious and anecdotal episode, Chide...
11 Aug 20231h 8min
