33. Vera: Shame, Safety and the Courage to Stay

33. Vera: Shame, Safety and the Courage to Stay

Vera learned early how to read a room.

How to sense shifts.

How to stay alert, often more attuned to others than to herself.


In this episode, we explore the quiet presence of shame, the kind that doesn’t shout, but gently pulls the body away from desire, closeness, and rest. Shame around wanting. Around being seen. Around taking up space in intimacy.


Vera shares what it’s like to move between longing and withdrawal, presence and disappearance. To want connection and still feel the impulse to step back when things begin to deepen.


Mor joins the conversation, offering reflections and commentary that add another layer, naming patterns, softening judgments and holding space for what shame often silences.


This episode is about:

– how shame lives in the body

– how safety changes desire

– how intimacy isn’t created through performance, but through permission and how staying can sometimes be the bravest act of all


A conversation without urgency.

Without fixing.

Just honest presence, listening, and truth.

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10. Fear of Relationships: Choosing Love over Fear

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9. Decoding the Woman – From Performance to Presence

9. Decoding the Woman – From Performance to Presence

In this episode of 34o Podcast, Henrik reflects on how intimacy often gets lost in performance – doing what we think we “should” instead of being fully present. He explores what happens when we shift ...

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8. Susanne: Pleasure is not a performance

8. Susanne: Pleasure is not a performance

Susanne, from Germany, shares her story of moving from giving her body away to truly inhabiting it with presence and joy. Her journey is about meeting life — and love — with vulnerability, honesty, an...

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7. Carrie Elle: What women actually want

7. Carrie Elle: What women actually want

In this conversation with Carrie Elle, we explore male vulnerability, the difference between performance and true presence, and the deep-rooted fear of rejection that shapes how men show up in intimac...

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6. Sara & Peter: Heart, mind & sex

6. Sara & Peter: Heart, mind & sex

Sara & Peter’s story blends tantra, heart, and presence — creating intimacy as a co-created dance. With Britta’s reflections, we explore how couples can deepen both love and desire in everyday life.

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5. Andrea: From silence to sovereignty

5. Andrea: From silence to sovereignty

Raised in silence and control, Andrea carried abuse and shame — until she found healing through yoga, tantra, and self-love.With Britta’s reflections, we explore how inner work, vulnerability, sexual ...

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