33. Vera: Shame, Safety and the Courage to Stay

33. Vera: Shame, Safety and the Courage to Stay

Vera learned early how to read a room.

How to sense shifts.

How to stay alert, often more attuned to others than to herself.


In this episode, we explore the quiet presence of shame, the kind that doesn’t shout, but gently pulls the body away from desire, closeness, and rest. Shame around wanting. Around being seen. Around taking up space in intimacy.


Vera shares what it’s like to move between longing and withdrawal, presence and disappearance. To want connection and still feel the impulse to step back when things begin to deepen.


Mor joins the conversation, offering reflections and commentary that add another layer, naming patterns, softening judgments and holding space for what shame often silences.


This episode is about:

– how shame lives in the body

– how safety changes desire

– how intimacy isn’t created through performance, but through permission and how staying can sometimes be the bravest act of all


A conversation without urgency.

Without fixing.

Just honest presence, listening, and truth.

Jaksot(52)

42. Queering Masculinity: Consent, Power & Reclaiming the Body | Katherine Wela Bogen

42. Queering Masculinity: Consent, Power & Reclaiming the Body | Katherine Wela Bogen

What does it mean to queer masculinity, not as identity politics, but as embodiment?In this 85-minute long-form conversation, Henrik speak with Katherine Wela Bogen, writer, scholar and cultural think...

3 Maalis 1h 23min

41. Elana: The Sure Thing

41. Elana: The Sure Thing

What happens when intimacy stops being spontaneous and starts being intentional?In this episode of 34o, I’m joined by Elana, who shares how a simple weekly ritual — what she calls The Sure Thing — tra...

24 Helmi 1h 3min

40. Samantha Spiro: Why We Protect Ourselves From the People We Love

40. Samantha Spiro: Why We Protect Ourselves From the People We Love

In part one, we explored how love begins to collapse when pain isn’t met and how self-protection quietly replaces contact.In this second part, the conversation turns toward what actually allows intima...

17 Helmi 53min

39. Samantha Spiro: When Pain Isn’t Met, Love Collapses

39. Samantha Spiro: When Pain Isn’t Met, Love Collapses

We’re taught how to perform, succeed, and compete, but not how to handle emotional pain.In this first part of my conversation with Samantha Spiro, we explore what actually happens when pain shows up i...

10 Helmi 54min

38. Bonnie Diaz: What if partnership isn’t about leading or following, but about listening?

38. Bonnie Diaz: What if partnership isn’t about leading or following, but about listening?

In this episode of 34o, Henrik sits down with Bonnie Diaz, world-class ballroom champion, master educator, and creator of the 4D Partnership System, to explore what true connection really looks like, ...

3 Helmi 1h

37. Wren: What if intimacy isn’t something we achieve — but something we allow?

37. Wren: What if intimacy isn’t something we achieve — but something we allow?

In this episode of 34o, Henrik is joined by Wren, an outdoor boudoir photographer whose work lives at the intersection of nature, embodiment and reclaiming pleasure beyond shame.Raised in a conservati...

27 Tammi 1h 32min

36. 🇸🇪 Kalle Norwald: Varför relationer går sönder och vad vi ofta missar

36. 🇸🇪 Kalle Norwald: Varför relationer går sönder och vad vi ofta missar

ENGLISH:What happens to intimacy in a time when so many people feel stressed, disconnected, and unsure?In this episode of 34o, in Swedish, I’m joined by Kalle Norwald for a warm, honest and deeply ref...

20 Tammi 59min

35. Lisa Näs: Intimacy without performance. Words without exploitation.

35. Lisa Näs: Intimacy without performance. Words without exploitation.

In this episode of 34o, I’m joined by Lisa Näs, journalist and long-time writer on sex, relationships and intimacy for women’s magazines.We talk about what happens behind the text:- How do you write a...

13 Tammi 1h 1min

Suosittua kategoriassa Terveys ja hyvinvointi

unicast
tiedenaiset-podcast
psykopodiaa-podcast
voi-hyvin-meditaatiot-2
vakeva-elama-viisaampi-mieli-vahvempi-keho
rss-kuumilla-aalloilla
rss-pitaisko-erota
puhu-muru
paaasia-podcast
rss-kyykkya-ja-kuoharia
meditaatiot-suomeksi
fitnessvastaanotto
rss-nautinto
selviytyjat-tarinoita-elamasta
junnut-pelissa
rss-uplevel-by-sonja-hannus
rss-pt-paahtio
onnen-kuplia
terapiassa
rss-vapaudu-voimaasi