256: DR. MICHAEL GERVAIS: How to STOP worrying about peoples opinions + START building Self-Confidence.

I’m so excited to share this conversation I aimed at since the start of my podcast years ago.

Dr. Michael Gervais is one of the world’s top high-performance psychologists and leading experts on the relationship between the mind and human performance.

His national bestselling book, The First Rule of Mastery, Stop Worrying About People’s Opinion, is one of my new favorites and touches on a MAJOR fear we all face at some or several points in our lives.

Mike founded Finding Mastery, a psychology consulting agency that has spent decades working with the world’s best from Fortune 10 CEOs to Olympians and world record holders as they navigate high-pressure environments. His potent work helps these individuals thrive at the intersection of performance and wellbeing and I’m confident this episode will guide you in doing the same.

In this conversation, we cover:

• What is FOPO and how does it affect us?

• How the brain is wired to perceive and respond to “dangers” like social rejection and public speaking + ways to reprogram it for SUCCESS

• What does crowdsourcing your identity and worth mean and how to embrace your authentic SELF better

• The distinction between being THE best vs. being YOUR best in a performance-obsessed society

• Key reflective practices that will reveal your true identity based on PURPOSE vs. PERFORMANCE

• Various energy exchanges are seen in introverts and extroverts + how it influence their expression of thoughts and feelings

• How to develop REAL Self-trust

And so much more. This conversation fuses high-level experience, wisdom, and heart to help you curate your life of mastery.

Let me know how this episode impacted you via IG in the comments, DMs + story shares, and tag @roxylook + @blackbeltbeauty -- I LOVE connecting with you.

Are you loving The Roxanne Show? We would LOVE your support!

Subscribe, share + give our podcast a 5 Star rating, and review HERE

My team and I appreciate YOU!

Enjoy!

xRx

STAY CONNECTED WITH MIKE GERVAIS

• ️INSTAGRAM: @michaelgervais

• TWITTER: @michaelgervais

• PODCAST: Finding Mastery Podcast

• WEB: www.findingmastery.com

STAY CONNECTED WITH ROXANNE SAFFAIE

• ️INSTAGRAM: @roxylook @blackbeltbeauty

• TWITTER: @roxylook

• THREADS: @roxylook

• YOUTUBE: www.youtube.com/blackbeltbeauty

RESOURCES

Download my FREE GUIDED FUTURE-SELF MEDITATION + DIGITAL JOURNAL to start powerfully activating a clear connection with your highest + Future Self NOW.

QUEEN, TRYING HARD BIG BUT FEELING STUCK? Let's unleash that potent reality you've been fantasizing about or trying hard to achieve but can’t seem to make it happen. Your Future Self isn't just a far-off idea—it's your unclaimed power, Queen. My Future Self digital course is your KEY to Self-Empowerment, Reality Creation, and unshakable Wholeness. This course isn't about temporary fixes; it's about lasting transformation. LEARN MORE ON THE COURSE HERE

Join Queendom: A Sisterhood of Empowerment and Growth. Dive into this exclusive + FREE community where Self-discovery, authentic connections, and personal evolution are celebrated daily, guided by the wisdom and warmth of Roxanne.

Download my FREE SELF-LOVE Masterclass + take your SELF-LOVE to UNCONDITIONAL levels!

Click HERE to join my INSIDER list for monthly emails that serve empowering support laced with FEMININE fire.

Purchase my guided + illustrated journal, YOU ARE THE PATH HERE