Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau12 Okt 2023

222. Why Finding a Partner that Leads, Plans, + is Ambitious Has Been Difficult for You

If you believe it's IMPOSSIBLE to attract the type of man that has ambition, makes plans, and takes charge in your relationship…I may have an idea why that is. And you're probably not going to like hearing it. Once upon a time, I was in the same shoes as you: fed up with attracting men who wouldn't so much as initiate a phone call, sick of having to do ALL the work in every relationship, and wondering where all the ambitious men were. But you know what else I believed? That men were dumb as rocks. No, really. I genuinely, wholeheartedly believed that men were inferior to me, that they couldn't do anything right, and they needed my guidance in everything… But if that was true, well…why on earth would I want to have one of them leading me? It doesn't matter what you consciously say you want. If your unconscious mind believes men are inferior, the unconscious will win over the conscious every time. Let's talk about why this superiority is actually sabotaging our dating lives. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Want to get to know the woman behind the podcast? Find me in these TikTok streets: https://www.tiktok.com/@iambeatricekamau Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Head over to my website to learn more about how we can work together to shift your energy & transform your life. Sign up for Indulgent and Balanced™, a guilty-pleasure, FREE monthly newsletter filled with tips, honey, and sweetness designed to help you experience a delicious and pleasure-filled life FIRST so that you can take action from an aligned place: https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/87dcb0b30c Join The Shameless Societea, where luxe bitches get together and learn to hold themselves to a higher standard, to be celebrated, to be supported, and to expand through community and vulnerability. This is where you come home to yourself. Welcome HOME. https://www.facebook.com/groups/theshamelesssocietea

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