50 Plus a Tip

ONE HUNDRED episodes! Thank you! It has been a privilege and honour to connect with so many amazing listeners, Instagram followers and fabulous guests! And a huge thank you to you all for subscribing, reviewing and sharing ! This episode we tackle all of the season four questions we have piled up (there’s a LOT) and discuss what the podcast has meant to us. Cheers to 100+ more episodes 🥂 Merry Christmas and happy wh0re-ing ! 💋

17 Des 20211h 48min

Welcome back to our hilarious and insightful episode with the fabulous Nina (@ninatheok) - a beautiful, black dominatrix who specializes in erotic massage and getting the bag. Her heart is big but her booty is bigger. She's kinky to her core and a lover of all things pink. 💕 Note: This is PART 2 of our two-part interview so, if you haven’t already, go listen to Part 1 and then get your a$$ back here! This portion of our chat with Nina we: share our experiences growing up in religious communities; discuss being in a relationship while a SWer; Nina shares with us her experience as mid to plus size and a black woman in the s3x industry; unpack the concept of racism versus fetishization; and relive Nina’s most memorable massage experience. It was such a pleasure to sit down with Nina and she did NOT disappoint. I seriously think I got abs from laughing so hard recording this one! As always, thanks for listening. Have a wonderful week and happy wh0ring ! 💋

8 Des 20211h 43min

You are in for a TREAT this week (and a sh!t ton of laughs)! We’re sitting down with the hilarious Nina (@ninatheok) - She's a beautiful, black dominatrix who specializes in erotic massage and getting the bag. Her heart is big but her booty is bigger. She's kinky to her core and a lover of all things pink. Tackling religious shame, body acceptance, black intersectionality and twerking in one episode would be a challenge for anyone else but she does it with such humour, grace and honesty. Ok well… one episode, 2 parts ! This first part of episode 99 we: discuss how Nina got into the industry and her first day on the job; share what an appointment involves; cover what a “typical” client is and how to properly vet them; her experience with female clientele; how to know which businesses are strictly massage n which offer extra; provide advice on massage parlour etiquette; and unpack common misconceptions people have about massage parlours & erotic massage. Make sure to listen to PART 2 of our interview Nina for more of our thought-provoking discussions and a load of laughs! 💋

8 Des 202142min

This week we are chatting with fellow podcaster Jamie Finch (@jamiexfinch). Jamie is a British musician and game developer who turned his creative hands to the sex industry 4 years ago with the podcast “Let’s Talk About Sex Jamie”. Since then he has established himself as a key figure in the sex positivity community advocating for the connection between sexual and mental health. This episode Jamie: explains what sex addiction means to him, discusses when he realized that there may be a problem, unpacks where his sex addiction may have stemmed from, explains what recovery looks like, shares common misconceptions about sex addiction and tons more!  Thank you for listening and make sure to check out Jamie’s podcast “Let’s Talk About Sex Jamie” @letstalkaboutsexjamie  !  Have a wonderful week and happy whore-ing! 💋

1 Des 20211h 17min

This week we chat with Crissa Parker (ig: @crissaparker_), the force behind The Dancers Resource (ig: @thedancersresource). According to it’s site: “The Dancers Resource is an app designed to assist dancers with the necessary information on clubs that they would other wise have to find out personally by trial and error. The information includes auditions, wages, manager info & club vibe, experiences.” Along with the app, The Dancers Resource has amassed a huge presence on social media, providing helpful info and relatable laughs to it’s almost 110k followers.  This episode we: discuss how Crissa started in the industry, cover valuable lessons she’s learned along the way, examine burnout and how to avoid it, unpack red flags to look out for at clubs and discuss when you know it’s time to hang up the Pleasers and retire!  Thanks for listening and make sure to check out THE DANCERS RESOURCE APP for a ton of helpful tips and important club info! 💋

25 Nov 202153min

Hello tippers, welcome back to 50 PLUS A TIP Podcast! This week we are breaking the podcast into two sections: a book review and a crash course. The first part of this episode we will be diving into Dr. Raven Bowen’s book “Work, Money and Duality: Trading s*x as a side hustle”, which we highly recommend you all read. The second part of this episode (at the 57 min mark) we switch gears and provide some tips on how customers should act in a str!pclub - i.e. STR!P CLUB ETIQUETTE: PATRON EDITION! We read some infographics from two Instagram accounts @prettyboygirl and @theglowyhustle , discuss our personal tips for str!pclub patrons and share your listener / follower responses to our Instagram story question “club do and don’ts: patron edition”. As always, thank you for listening. Have a wonderful week and happy wh0re-ing ! 💋

18 Nov 20211h 17min

Today we are joined by Bella Green (@bellagreenery) . Bella is a stand-up comedian, writer and sex worker living in Melbourne, Australia. She got her start in comedy by telling jokes in brothels to anyone who'd listen. Now she tells jokes in some of the best comedy rooms in the country.  Her debut stand-up hour “Bella Green is Charging For It” answers all the questions you’d never thought to ask about the adult industry. It won Best Comedy at Adelaide Fringe 2020 and was nominated for Best Comedy at Melbourne Fringe 2018.  Bella was a guest on the Wilosophy podcast in 2020, with Wil Anderson describing her as “a brilliant stand-up comedian” and her memoir 'Happy Endings' was released by Pan Macmillan in 2021. We chat with Bella about her experience writing her memoir “Happy Endings”; how her SW and comedy work overlap; share her weirdest stories from her SW career; discuss how working in the s3x industry has changed her; share her journey with addiction and rehab; and a ton more!  After reading (or listening - shoutout to audible) Bella’s memoir and absolutely loving it, it was such a pleasure to sit down with her and have the opportunity to ask all our lingering questions (What happened to the meth time guy? Has she p00ped on anyone since her dungeon disaster?). Trust us when we say, you are going to adore Bella’s humour and candidness … so once you’re done this episode go buy her book and thank us later! 💋

10 Nov 202152min

Welcome back Tippers! This week we: recap our spooky adventures, rant about annoying Instagram comments, and review Lola Davina’s second book “S*x Work & Money” 💰 . Money can be a heavy and difficult topic to unpack so we decided to go through some of the activities suggested in the book together and encourage you all to work through them on your own as well. We end this episode on a lighter note by unpacking three new Am I The A$$hole (AITA) scenarios from Reddit. As always, thank you for listening and don’t forget to RATE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE on Apple Podcast or wherever you listen! Have a wonderful week and happy wh0ring 💋

4 Nov 20211h 15min