Reclaiming Me: Heal Your Childhood Attachment Wounds, People Pleasing, and Complex PTSD for Women

Are you a woman who has done years of healing work on your attachment trauma, yet still feel unable to let go of people-pleasing and perfectionism? This trauma-informed podcast helps women with complex PTSD heal the lasting impact of childhood attachment wounds from parents and caregivers so you can finally release survival patterns, rebuild self-trust, and create relationships rooted in authenticity, confidence, and emotional safety. Listen each week to learn how to: • Understand how trauma, attachment patterns, and overthinking fuel anxiety, stress, and burnout. • Release perfectionism, people-pleasing, and outdated identities that keep you playing small. • Build healthy boundaries, embodied self-trust, and a grounded sense of purpose and worth. **Ready to begin your healing? Start with the rebrand episode of Reclaiming Me: E66: Why You Can’t Heal Your Attachment Style Without Trauma Work (The Truth Behind the Rebrand of Reclaiming Me). ** I'm your host, Cindy Payne—a licensed professional counselor, certified yoga teacher, and C-PTSD survivor—offers a new episode each Monday, and a Wednesday Midweek Reframe teaching a practical skill or concept, so you can reduce the impact of C-PTSD symptoms and improve relationships. Work With Me: Ready for deeper support? Explore therapy or book a consultation here: cindypayne.com Connect With Me: Send me a message directly on Instagram: @cindypaynerooted or via email: cindy@cindypaynelpc.com This podcast explores the real, human side of growth — from navigating anxiety, imposter syndrome, and codependency to rediscovering presence, confidence, and authenticity. Through honest conversations about vulnerability, leadership, and letting go, we dive into the balance between purpose and rest, mindfulness and action, boundaries and connection. Together, we unpack the layers of trauma, stress, and exhaustion that keep us from fulfillment, and explore how healing begins when we choose awareness, compassion, and alignment over overwhelm.

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Episoder(152)

E151: The Number That Isn't Your Whole Story: The ACE (Adverse Childhood Experiences) Study and Your Resilience Score

"I don't really think my childhood counts — nothing that dramatic happened." If you've ever said some version of that to yourself, this episode is for you.The ACE study followed over 17,000 adults and...

28 Sep 29min

E150: One Tool, Three Patterns: The Anchor Practice for Dissociation, Certainty-Seeking & Comparison

Monday's episode named three patterns a lot of listeners recognized in themselves. Today: one tool that works for all three.Underneath drifting away, needing proof, and comparing your present to your ...

23 Sep 11min

E149: You're Not Broken, You're Time-Traveling: A Listener Q&A on Presence, Certainty & Comparison

Do you ever catch yourself drifting out of a moment you actually wanted to be present for? Or find yourself needing proof that a new relationship is "safe" before you can relax into it? Or notice you'...

21 Sep 40min

E148: Who Am I Without This Role? A Quick Identity-Rebuilding Practice

Still feeling like you lost a piece of yourself along with the role? Let’s find what’s still there.We go deeper into Monday’s reframe, “this role ending doesn’t erase who I’ve become,” with three spec...

16 Sep 13min

E147: Rebuilding Your Identity After a Role Ends: A CPTSD Survivor’s Guide

Have you ever felt like you lost yourself the moment a role in your life changed, even a role ending that was healthy, expected, or something you wanted? This episode is about why that disorientation ...

14 Sep 35min

E146: How to Stop Over-Apologizing This Week: A Fawn Response Reframe

Caught yourself apologizing again today? Let’s practice something different.We go deeper into Monday’s reframe, “I can hold space for myself first,” with three specific ways to practice it and a short...

9 Sep 16min

E145: The Fawn Response Revisited: Why You Over-Apologize and How to Stop

Have you ever caught yourself apologizing for something that genuinely did not need an apology? Sorry for asking a question. Sorry for having a preference. In this episode we’re taking another look at...

7 Sep 37min

E144: How to Stop Overthinking Every Decision: A CPTSD Reframe Practice

Still replaying a decision from earlier this week? This midweek reframe gives you something concrete to actually use before your next one.We go deeper into Monday’s reframe, “I trust myself to learn a...

2 Sep 16min